5 Moments Of Shame During Childbirth

Giving birth is one of the most difficult and important experiences in a woman’s life.  But let’s face it, there are several moments of embarrassment during childbirth that can happen to anyone.

If you’ve given birth before, you know exactly what I’m talking about. If not, you’ve probably heard of these moments of embarrassment during childbirth. And we’re not talking about puffing or straining.

Let’s look at some of those moments of embarrassment during childbirth that can occur during your child’s birth. When you are already a mother, they may remind you of the moment you gave birth to your little one.

Moments of shame during childbirth

1. Breaking your waters in public

When your waters break, the moisture is everywhere. What happens when these break in public? Your clothes get so wet, it looks like you peed your pants.

Do not worry. When you are heavily pregnant, this accident is the last thing people think about. Bystanders will do everything they can to help you. When you are in labor, it is important to go to the hospital as soon as possible!

2. Your waters break the moment the doctor examines you

Yes, this is common. Sometimes it happens during a normal check-up, or when the midwife assists you during the delivery. However, it is not the end of the world; your doctor will have experienced this before. You’re probably more concerned than he is if the moisture is spreading everywhere. 

3. Pooping during childbirth

Don’t worry about this. It happens more often than you can imagine. When you push, you may experience so much pain that you don’t realize it is happening. But when you feel the urge, go for it.

No nurse will stop you. When you are in labour, everything is allowed. We can assure you that pooping or not will be your least concern during delivery. The nurses will wash you right away while you continue pushing.

When the baby’s head emerges during a vaginal birth, the medical staff may offer you the opportunity to see for yourself through a mirror.

When you have had an epidural, you may be able to look because you don’t feel as much pain from the pushing. But during a vaginal birth without an epidural, the pain will stop you from focusing on it, no matter how much you want to see your baby.

It won’t be long before you can hold your baby in your arms. The mirror isn’t a bad idea, but don’t worry if you can’t see it. 

5. With an epidural it wouldn’t hurt anymore…yes it does

Although an epidural is slower and the pushing is difficult due to a lack of sensations, there is less pain and labor is easier…at least for some women.

Sometimes, however, the epidural does not do its job or does not completely eliminate the pain. In these cases, giving birth is obviously painful.

So if you have been given painkillers or an epidural and you notice that the effect of these is diminishing, say something about it.  It doesn’t always work, so don’t let someone else tell you that an epidural is a miracle cure, because it isn’t.

Do you have an anecdote about the birth of your baby? Don’t forget to share it! We love to read your fun, crazy and moments of shame during childbirth.