Motherhood Preparation: Become A Better Person

A mother-to-be may have many things on her mind. The majority of women do not feel quite ready to have a baby. In preparation for motherhood, there are probably many things that need to be done. Let’s look at what a mother-to-be says: maybe you recognize yourself in this.

A mother speaking

My life has changed since I met your father. In fact, even before we met, things changed.

These changes helped me find a man I love and want to start a family with. A man who wants to realize my dream with me: to become a mother. Becoming your mother.

I admit it: like many other women in this world, I really want to be a mother.  I want to hold my child in my arms and love it more than anything else.

My dream is to feed my baby and give him a bath. In my dreams I kiss my baby and watch him sleep. I long to see my child smile every morning and to dry his tears with my kisses.

Yes, I long to be a mother. More than that, I want to be a super mom. To be the best in the world for my child. I want to lead him through life with clarity, patience and tenderness.

I want to be a mother who brings out the best in her children.

A mother who can teach them the importance and value of freedom, beauty and honour. Who teaches them what a genuine smile, honesty and precious moments with family can mean. I want to be a mother teach them what true love is.

More than a nice boy or a nice girl, I want my children to be happy.  Every day I will teach them this by leading by example.

The more I think about it, the more motivated I am to be a role model. For these reasons, it is now more important than ever to change. Everything, to be a good mother.

Preparing for Motherhood: Becoming a Better Person

Honestly I think I’m a good person. I also realize that I have many shortcomings.

I am convinced that every day is an opportunity to become a better person. Every day we can correct our mistakes and become the person we want to be. This version of myself is still in development.

One of the most important lessons of life is that life equals change.  Our circumstances are constantly changing. The world itself is constantly changing. That is why it is important to go along with this, because otherwise we will be swept away by it.

The best change is conscious change. A change that we encourage, little by little we nurture and enjoy. 

I can let qualities such as love and softness grow again.

I’m afraid, in this male-dominated world, I’ve kind of lost these qualities. I have ventured into this man’s world with great success. A battle between competing women, for which I also had to give up things in order to progress.

So, now that the desire for a family of my own has grown tremendously, I don’t want to be a mother alone. I want to be a great mother. I have to reinvent myself. There are still hundreds of things I need to do.

I’m going to create a home for you

Your father has unleashed things in me that I no longer knew I had. His love has revived my sense of tenderness.

But I’ve also realized that I need to be strong. Not strict, but strong, sweet and kind. 

I still have so many lessons to learn. I also feel like I have so much to teach you. I collect thousands of great moments so I always have a smile ready for you. 

I work on my personal development  so that you grow up with a mother who is sensible and wise. Right now, I’m turning myself into preparing for motherhood. All so I can hold you in my arms later.

To welcome you to a home you deserve I prepare myself.  I am convinced that every soul chooses its own parents before they are born. I read this in a book once. I firmly believe in it, just like in the fact that life means change.

And for this, my child, preparing for motherhood is very important to me. I want to be a better woman so I can be a better mother to you. This way I can stand next to you when you learn about life yourself.