My Top Priority As A Mother Is My Child

My highest priority as a mother is and will always be my child. His health, his happiness and his well-being.  There is nothing in the world that motivates me more and makes me fight for my child.

Motherhood keeps me going. Even though fate tempts me more often than not, it doesn’t stop me from going ahead and measuring my own strength. Both physically and emotionally.

There isn’t a pillar I can’t hold up and no weapon I can’t wield when it comes to picking myself up, fighting, and moving forward.

The goal in my life is to pave the way for my child to travel safely, to give him the best I can and to teach him to have integrity.

My strategy is to offer him my love, protect him and help him when he needs me.

Since he was born, he has been my top priority as a mother.

My second priority as a mother

I mentioned before that my first priority is my child. Everything to do with his emotional and physical well-being is my top priority as a mother.

What is my other priority as a mother?

In addition, I myself have become my other biggest priority. By this I do not mean myself as an independent and selfish person. But me, as a mother. I need to change my shortcomings. I have to make sure that my child does not copy these or get the same experiences when we are together. 

My second priority is to grow intellectually and gain knowledge. That way I can answer his most important questions in the future.

I keep a close eye on my personal and emotional development.

• I want to be a woman who knows how to behave humbly and selflessly. A woman who goes through life without the apathy and competitiveness that is so common in business today. Without fighting for success.
• I have to learn not to look over my shoulder at others all the time. It is not only the people who pass me that I should consider my equals.
• It is important that my actions are more humane. I have to listen to the people I talk to, without imposing my opinion on them. If I do not agree with them, I want to be able to make this clear with respect. There is no need to put others down to stand out in the crowd.

• I want to learn not to lie, not to hold a grudge and to forgive. Negative thoughts must be a thing of the past. So is the negative mentality, which makes me think badly of others. I always sleep with one eye open and expect to be cheated. Even by those who are very close to me.

That’s why I have to prepare myself in advance. It will be years before I am a better person, the mother my child deserves. 

My third priority as a mother

After I became a mother, everything got more complicated. Before giving birth to my child, I thought I was ready for the pain of pushing to give birth to him. Now, after the birth, I realize that those few hours of contractions and pain were just the beginning.

Dedication, effort and consistency. Those are the principles that move a mother forward. These do not present themselves until the child is born.

That said, I realized that after becoming a mother, I didn’t just sacrifice things. I noticed it was love at first sight. It was a total surrender of myself to someone who barely knew me.

My third priority

Therefore, my third and final priority is for my child to know that I am his mother. I am the one who breastfeeds him, cuddles him, bathes him and takes care of him.

He needs to know that I am the only one in the world who will always be there for him. A shoulder to cry on, a compliment, forgiveness, or encouragement to keep going. Everything he needs at any time, anywhere in the world. I will be there for him.

No one in the world can make me change my mind or keep me from this path that I have before me. I am fully committed, with heart and soul, to these top priorities as a mother.

My first, second and third priority as a mother is to fight through thick and thin for the relationship with my child that started the day he was born.