The Day You Become A Mother, Life Will Smile At You!

The day you become a mother, your life changes radically. Nothing will be the same again.

All the hormonal changes cause a rollercoaster of emotions. Yet it is impossible not to feel that life is smiling at us. We feel spiritually fulfilled, complete.

It is difficult to describe what it feels like to be a mother when you are not yet a mother yourself. The emotion can be so deep that it makes you feel indescribable just thinking about your little one.

Life smiles at us when we are mothers because we have produced life. We continue our own existence, we extend it indefinitely, and we become responsible for the heirs of the world.

The joy of being a mother

Every experience in the first few years of our child’s life is infinitely sweet. Some moments are more serious and others more relaxed. At times we feel anxious, but all stages of motherhood are full of tenderness.

Motherhood is great because we are driven by someone who loves us, needs us, and isn’t afraid to say it or show it. Our children’s smiles give meaning to our lives. We feed on this incomparable love.

Each of our little child’s achievements is a reflection of us as mothers. It shows us that we are doing well as mothers.  It also motivates us to do our best to keep things going well.

While many of these triumphs can happen without us, that feeling will make us feel proud of our work in the future.

We ask nothing in return for what we do for our children, and our duties as mothers never tire us out. The sleepless nights, the fears, the routine that sometimes seems like a drag, the changes in our bodies and even the partial loss of our identity… It’s just all part of motherhood and no mother cares about it.

The day you become a mother has come

When a woman is born, she is physically prepared to become  a mother one  day  . She is born with her eggs, which grow and mature according to their development.

Unfortunately, not all children are born with the natural ability to conceive, but this does not prevent them from being mothers in one way or another.

Under normal circumstances, there   should be no obstacles for a woman to become a mother when she wants to.  But not everyone is emotionally prepared to improvise.

When planning to conceive, we consciously prepare for pregnancy and subsequent motherhood. It will be an exciting time knowing the baby is on its way.

Some women don’t even plan everything. Life smiles at them, they become mothers. Through the inevitable transformation, we learn to discover and know ourselves better.

Despite the difficulties a woman may have in accepting her pregnancy, she must also give herself the opportunity to let herself be overwhelmed by the emotions. Becoming a mother can be difficult, but there’s nothing your own fruit in your belly can’t help you change.

With an open heart

Motherhood is a beautiful phase, which does not end but continues to evolve. You are forever mother. Therefore, you need to prepare for all the changes that will occur in our lives.

Enjoy the moment and don’t feel sad. Open your heart:

• A mother works out of love and not out of obligation.
• When you are a mother, life smiles at you.
• Children will not always be exactly the way you would like them to be.
• The biggest motivation in your life is your child, but don’t forget that you exist too.
• If you love them, let them fly too. Give them space.
• Be the ears, the shoulder, the advice and the joy for your children.
• Feel proud of what you have created but let the world enjoy them too.
• Don’t judge yourself too harshly. It is not necessary!
• Make your children look at you with admiration and not with fear.
• A mother always knows, but it doesn’t hurt to listen to good advice too.

The love is mutual

We believe that it is easier for a mother to talk about her children and feel full of love. We hear less often that children express their love for their mother.

However, do not think that your love is not mutual. Think of all the trust you’ve been given. Your children have entrusted you with their lives, their food, their sleep, their first steps, their fears. And they showed you how much they need you.

Whoever loves you the most is the one who calls you mommy. It recognizes your voice, your smell and it stays that way, even with the passage of time.